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Hey there, party people! The holidays are upon us, which means it’s time to dust off those dining tables and get ready for some festive gatherings.
But before you break out the fine china and fancy silverware, let’s talk about setting a table that’s both stylish and timeless. Because nobody wants to feel like they’re prepping for a royal banquet when all they want is to enjoy a delicious meal with loved ones.
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What Goes Where? A Whirlwind Tour of Table Setting Etiquette
Setting the table doesn’t have to be a stuffy affair. Think of it as a fun little puzzle, a chance to express your creativity and make your guests feel special. So let’s break it down, shall we?
First things first, let’s get a visual of the basics:
- Plates: Stack 'em up! Start with a charger (if you're feeling fancy), then your dinner plate, and finally a salad or soup bowl on top. We're building a delicious tower of anticipation.
- Flatware: Forks to the left, knives and spoons to the right. We're not reinventing the wheel here, folks. Just keep it classic and organized. Place your flatware in the order of use, starting with the outermost piece and working your way in as the courses progress.
- Napkins: Tuck them under the forks for a crisp, clean look, or go for a bit of drama by placing one—napkin ring and all—center stage on the plate. It's a fashion statement for your table.
- Glasses: This is where things get interesting. Your water glass takes center stage above the knife, with the wine glass slightly to the right and a touch lower. Think of them as an elegant little duo, ready to quench your thirst and complement your meal.
Need some inspiration for your plates and napkins? Check out these beauties:
- Butter Dish: This little gem, along with its trusty mini knife, takes up residence to the left of the forks. Because who doesn't love a little pat of butter with their bread?
- Dessert Plate: If you're planning a sweet finale, your dessert plate goes above the dinner plate, with a horizontal fork and spoon chilling just above it.
My Table Setting Evolution: From Formal to Festive
I’ll admit, I used to be all about the formal table settings. When I registered for my wedding 3 decades ago, I chose Lenox china in two different patterns just so I could mix and match. People thought I was nuts, but I had a vision of cobalt and gold sparkling on my holiday tables with glistening crystal glasses.
These days, I’m a bit more casual. I love incorporating natural elements like rattan chargers, gingham napkins, and fresh-cut greens from my yard. A few taper candles and votives create a warm and inviting ambiance.
Here’s a peek at my everyday coastal table setting:
Pro Tip: Stick to unscented candles on the table. You don’t want any competing aromas to distract from the delicious food you’re serving
Ditch the Flowers: Creative Centerpiece Ideas
While I appreciate a beautiful floral arrangement as much as the next person, sometimes it’s fun to think outside the vase. Here are a few of my favorite alternatives:
- A mix of taper candles, pillar candles, and votives for a warm glow.
- Fresh greens or flowers cut straight from your garden for a touch of nature.
- A pretty table runner with lots of candles. I used a gold lamé one for years!
- A row of votives alternated with mini cactus plants for a touch of whimsy.
- Place cards for each guest, either beautifully designed or playfully personalized.
- A cornucopia filled with seasonal fruits, vegetables, or other festive goodies.
Need some inspiration for your holiday table? Feast your eyes on these gorgeous collections:
Winter Wonderland
Oh my goodness, how gorgeous is this Winter Wonderland tablescape?! I’m absolutely smitten with the elegant white plates, the crisp green napkins, and those delicate floral centerpieces.
Scandinavian Simplicity
This Scandinavian-inspired table setting is giving me all the minimalist vibes! I love the simplicity of the white plates and natural wood chargers, paired with those sleek silver utensils. And those delicate floral centerpieces add just the right touch of understated elegance. So chic!
Coastal Chic
This coastal-inspired table setting is giving me major beach house vibes! I’m loving the blue and white patterned plates, the delicate lace napkins, and the touch of rustic charm with the woven placemats. And those olive branches are the perfect finishing touch! So fresh and inviting.
Precious Metals
Talk about a touch of glam! This table setting is all about those luxurious metallic accents. I’m obsessed with the silver chargers, the elegant white plates, and those unique bone-handled utensils. And the dusty blue tablecloth adds the perfect touch of understated sophistication. So dreamy!
A Gift for You: My Perpetual Thanksgiving Shopping List
Years ago, I created a perpetual shopping list for Thanksgiving. It’s a lifesaver during the hectic holiday season, ensuring I never forget a key ingredient. And because I’m feeling extra generous, I’m gifting it to you!
I’ve also included two editable Canva templates for place cards and menu cards. Feel free to personalize them and add your own creative flair.
I hope these tips and resources help you set a timeless table that wows your guests and creates a warm and inviting atmosphere for your holiday gatherings. Remember, it’s not about being perfect; it’s about creating a space where everyone feels welcome and cherished.
